30 Truths--Day Two

Day Two:

Something you love about yourself.

Hmmm.

This is harder than the what I hate about myself question.

I like that I'm not confrontational.

The reason I picked this is because there used to be a time when I avoided it at all costs even if that meant I got hurt in the process.

I have refined this trait. I have a line that if crossed I will stand up for myself.

That being said it takes a lot for someone to cross that line.

I have learned throughout the years there are things worth fighting for and things that aren't.

I look back on arguements I've had with friends, family, exes, etc and the majority are over stupid, petty things that don't merit an argument.

I'm also I big believer in just being honest and talking, not arguing, over things.

This also means being the bigger person sometimes and letting things roll off your back.

I don't have thick skin.

Words hurt.

But if it's not worth the fight I'll deal with it.

I don't think I let people walk all over me at all.

I have stood up for myself when the time called for it.

I just think some things aren't worth a fight.

**This also goes hand-in-hand with being really understanding that people are human and they are bound to make mistakes and forgiving them in their worst hour speaks volumes of your character.

I know that I have made mistakes and the willingness of people to forgive me is a beautiful trait to have.

It's not always easy but if a friendship or any kind of relationship means something forgiveness is a good thing to be able to do.

(wow, that was kind of heavy)

So you wanna know the Hawaii countdown?? I know you do!

24 days peoples!

I know I'm excited!

This is the resort I am staying at :))

Song of the Day--

Good Life--OneRepublic